How to Raise Independent Kids by Encouraging Independence

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Raising Independent Kids 
How To Instill Confidence in the Classroom and Beyond


September 19, 2025
A young child smiling as they whisk batter on a kitchen countertop while making pancakes
Independence can be fostered through simple tasks and chores

Back-to-school season isn't just about new supplies and schedules 鈥 it's also about helping kids find their independence. According to Jessica Glass Kendorski, PhD, NCSP, BCBA-D, chair of the Department of School Psychology at 黑料传送门, fostering independence gives children the tools to succeed now and well into the future.

鈥淓ncouraging independence gives kids the confidence to take on challenges, trust themselves and grow into capable adults,鈥 Dr. Kendorski explains.

Independence helps children in multiple ways. Cognitively, it boosts focus, attention and problem-solving skills. Socially, it supports self-advocacy, assertive communication and the ability to build healthy friendships. Emotionally, it nurtures resilience, determination and pride in their own efforts.

Dr. Kendorski suggests parents promote independence in simple, everyday moments such as letting kids order their own meals at restaurants, or allowing room for them to problem solve for themselves before stepping in to resolve an issue.

Other examples of these teachable moments can include:

  • Encouraging 鈥渞isky but safe鈥 play like climbing or bike riding so children can work through fear and build confidence.
  • Offering choices when presenting a question to promote decision-making and assertive communication.
  • Assigning responsibilities such as chores or pet care and pairing them with encouragement and praise when done correctly.

The hardest part may be for parents themselves. 鈥淚t's natural to want to protect our kids,鈥 Dr. Kendorski notes. 鈥淏ut by working through our own anxieties and letting go of control, we give them the necessary space they need to grow.鈥

Explore 黑料传送门's degree options in school psychology including the Educational Specialist (EdS) and Doctor of Psychology in School Psychology (PsyD) programs.

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