鈥淓ight weeks before I was to complete my residency, and 24 weeks into my pregnancy,
I gave birth to twin boys鈥攎y miracle babies. One weighed 1 pound 3 ounces, the other
was 1 pound 11 ounces. They were in the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) for three
months. . . . After six weeks of healing from my C-section, I returned to complete
my residency. I鈥檇 already signed a contract to work at Avance Care, so once the boys
were discharged from the NICU, my husband and I packed up to move from Pennsylvania
to North Carolina with them. Life last summer was quite crazy. . . . Medicine, by
its nature, makes it tough to raise a family. While more women today are becoming
pregnant while building their medical careers, medical training has not traditionally
been set up in a way to be supportive. The timing is off. The most intense period
of your medical training is when you are supposed to start a family. I鈥檓 lucky that
my residency program and current employer have supported me. Their support was profoundly
important. It was the difference between my family being OK and my family not being
OK. . . . I work in a family medicine group practice, with behavioral health specialists,
nutritionists, with a full lab and X-ray services. We鈥檙e open seven days a week, which
I think is a great model鈥攅specially if you are a doctor with young children. In any
14-day period, I鈥檒l have six days off. This week I鈥檒l work 7:30 a.m. to 7:00 p.m.
on Tuesday and Thursday, 1:00 to 7:00 p.m. on Wednesday, and 9:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m.
on Saturday and Sunday. Next week it鈥檚 7:30 a.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Monday, Wednesday
and Friday. Such a schedule was important in the beginning because my sons needed
so much intense health care early in their lives. The schedule allows me to have a
work/life balance; when I get home, I turn off the doctor, and turn on the wife and
mom without it having an impact on my job. I can鈥檛 imagine working 8:00 a.m. to 5:00
p.m. every day or taking 24-hour calls/shifts. It makes me keenly aware of the difficulties
that colleagues of mine go through. . . . There鈥檚 a lot of stress in the first year
of a new job in medicine, but I think it would have been more stressful if I hadn鈥檛
done my residency training at the Crozer-Keystone Health System. The program did a
good job of escalating our responsibilities as we moved through training. Though we
were supervised, we were forced to get comfortable with making our own decisions.
I鈥檓 not someone who readily likes to get outside my comfort zone. In hindsight, it
was 100 percent the best thing for me and it set me up for success now.鈥�